| Besides looking good, what are the male attributes that | | | | to know that they are being appreciated and this |
| women find so attractive? Really, what do women | | | | comes through affection, closeness and good bonding |
| want in a man? | | | | of trust and feelings. |
| This above questions must have been pondered upon | | | | So do learn a woman's likes and dislikes and direct |
| by every straight man since the begining of time. Have | | | | your actions and behaviour to these ways. Of course, |
| you thought of that? | | | | this does not mean mean that you have to be too |
| Ok, I concede that while nobody could in anyway | | | | compromising. It is a matter of give and take. To give |
| answer this question with anything resembling a | | | | and take is not a 50-50 issue, or that you are always |
| complete answer, there are certain traits and attributes | | | | giving to her. It is that sometimes you give 75 and |
| of a man which women find very appealing that are | | | | sometimes you take 75. Otherwise, by giving too |
| generally agreed upon by most psychologists and as | | | | much, you will become a wussy (wimp) in her mind. A |
| well as from women themselves. This can give us, the | | | | wussy man is certainly not an attractive man and is a |
| mostly clueless male species some good insights into | | | | turn off to most women. |
| the female mindset. | | | | An example of a small gesture that shows affection |
| So what do women want in a man? High up on the list | | | | would be something like you wanted to go to take her |
| is confidence. In a woman's eye, a confident man is a | | | | to a sports game, but she wanted to watch a movie, |
| very appealing man. What I mean is genuine | | | | so you compromised and take her to the movie |
| confidence. Let me explain. You see, most men either | | | | instead. After the movie, you take her home and let |
| have very little confidence in themselves or carry | | | | her know that you are going to the sports game now |
| around a false sense of confidence in their attempts | | | | and she will really appreciate that. |
| to impress women. | | | | However, do not compromised too much and often. |
| When approaching a gorgeous girl that they have | | | | As I said, it is a give and take matter and she will know |
| never met before, most men will just freeze up | | | | it and appreciate it. Any pains you take to show true |
| somewhat or some will strut over to her with chests | | | | affection will be well rewarded and she will feel special |
| puffed up and peacock feathers all flustered to | | | | and appreciated. That a very powerful true attraction. |
| impress her with corny pick up lines like, "Can I buy you | | | | The next attribute women find very appealing in a man |
| a drink?" kind of false bravado. Get the idea? | | | | is that the man must be able to offer her a sense of |
| Women want to see real confidence in a man's | | | | security. Women these days are very independant |
| behavior and attitude. They are very sensitive to true | | | | and it is now no longer true that a man must provide |
| confidence instead of false bravado. Even if you are a | | | | everything for his woman. So being able to provide |
| good actor and can fake your confidence pretty well | | | | security these days means much more than just |
| at first, any woman you approach and begin spending | | | | bringing home the bread and bacon or standing up for |
| time with will soon learn of your "true colors" very | | | | her and protecting her. |
| quickly. | | | | Your woman will want to know that you are going to |
| Having confidence is much more than thinking that you | | | | work at least as hard as she is to get the good things |
| are the most attractive man on earth or believing that | | | | in life for her and for your eventual family. If she finds |
| you can achieve certain objectives. A genuinely | | | | that you are constantly job hopping or cannot stay on |
| confident man will share his opinions without being | | | | a job for long, chances are that she will drop you like a |
| argumentative, enjoys intellectual debates and is | | | | bombshell once another man who can give a sense of |
| always open to new ideas because they are so truly | | | | security shows up at the door! |
| confident that no new ideas can scare them. Being | | | | Although most women do not need to take money |
| geuninely confident is thought to be perhaps the most | | | | from their men anymore, it is still very crucial for a man |
| attractive attribute a man can have in attracting | | | | to prove that he can provide when the situation arises. |
| women. | | | | Of course there are many more male attributes and |
| Next on the list women find attractive in a man is, | | | | traits that are appealing and attractive to women. The |
| affection. Showing affection to a woman is not just a | | | | above are just some examples for you to ponder |
| matter of physical touch or emotional connection, but is | | | | over about what type of men women like. |
| a complex mixture of the two elements. Women want | | | | |